THE 90-NIGHT BONDing RESET EXPERIENCE

Transform the last fifteen minutes of every day into the most meaningful investment you'll ever make in your child's future.

This is why you're here. What about this feels familiar...?

It's 8:14PM

You quietly close your child's bedroom door. The house is finally still. You should feel relieved.

Instead, you replay the last hour - wondering...

Did I do enough?

Why did I lose my patience?

Shouldn't this be easier?

Shouldn't I be enjoying this?

You think: Okay, tomorrow night will be better.

But tomorrow comes and there's...

Dinner to prep

Homework to get done

Laundry to finish

Forgotten Permission Slips to sign

& a hundred other small demands that require your attention.

Some are done in a rush because their tired, your tired and there's...

Teeth to clean

Face to wash

Pajamas to find

Toys to put away

A story to be read

A kiss, a hug, and a 'Good Night' - Whew!

BUT THAT'S WHEN ...the NEGOTIATIONS begin.

One more water.

One more question.

One more story.

One more tuck in.

In the back of your mind... the dishes aren't done yet. Your phone is buzzing. You've got prep to do for tomorrow's work...

Before you know it, you're back in that hall with "Go. To. Sleep!" still ringing in your ears.

Another bedtime has come and gone. You haven't had time to notice:

"How do they feel?"

It's not because you don't love your child, you do.

You show up every night.

You just wish there was a straight-forward, repeatable system that could help your child fall asleep, so you could reclaim the evening - guilt-free.

You've always been in the room.
Now you could know what to do when you're there.

OWN THE NIGHT

A guided 90-night experience helping parents turn bedtime into an opportunity for deeper connection.


Apply at the time you're already spending.

A 15-minute, 4-step bedtime system.

Provide a calmer evening for your family.

Founder Family Investment: $1997 $497 CAD (this will not be repeated)

why this matters

Bedtime isn't just how the day ends.

It's how tomorrow begins.

Every night your child falls asleep carrying thoughts and emotions from the day.

Excitement...

Disappointment...

Worry...

Joy

Most parents focus on getting their child fall asleep quickly.

Few stop to consider the importance of

...what the child feels as they do.

Children may not remember every bedtime story...

But, they remember how bedtime FELT & the

STORY they told themselves about that feeling.

1

BEDTIME

WITHOUT
INTENTION

Everyone is tired.

You watch the clock and feel the stress.

Bedtime becomes something to get finished.

The goal is to get them to sleep.

2

BEDTIME

WITH
INTENTION

The pace slows.

The shoulders soften.

Your child feels your presence before they hear your words.

Connection replaces urgency.

You BOND together.

3

BEDTIME

OVER TIME

Nothing dramatically changes the first night. But night after night...

You notice your child feels more: Confident Capable Empathetic Resilient Connected

Repeated experiences gradually become part of how they understand themselves - and your relationship.

Because each day has a final chapter

Every night ends somehow

And most of us never consciously write it.
We're tire.
Distracted.
Doing our best.
But what if the last few moments before sleep weren't simply the end of another busy day...

What if this became one of the most meaningful parts?

meet Lorraine lapointe

Thirty years

Thousands of Children
& A Remarkable Discovery

Hi, I'm Lorraine

For more than fourty years I've been a teacher, principal, special education leader, coach, and a student of child development.

I've worked with thousands of children, hundreds of families, and multitudes of parents trying reward charts...

Sticker programs...

Specific scripts...

Stricter discipline...

Gentler corrections...

Consistent consequences...

And learned something important.

The issues we face as parents are rarely about our child's resistance, our parenting style, or even what happened that day.

Some children carry a great deal of stress. Others more easily overcome great challenges. I wondered: What's the difference?

The answer comes down to having a supportive relationship, a strong bond, a consistent connection with at least ONE significant, predictable, trusted adult in the child's life.

I also noticed that none of the strategies matter much unless there's intentional focus on what positively influences the child's feelings about themselves, especially at the end of the day.

This realization stayed with me long before I had the language to explain it.

Since working in Education, I've explored nervous system regulation, Neuro-Linguistic Programming, Somatic Coaching, Hypnotherapy and neuroscience - all of which help inform my understand of why the final few minutes before sleep matter so much.

From countless conversations with families, today I understand that parents don't need more pressure—they need a straightforward way to stay connected with the children they already love so deeply.

This became the foundation for the BONDing RESET.

Credentials

Education

Master of Education

Specialist in Special Education

Specialist in Math, Science & Technology

Experience - 40+ years:

Teacher

Principal

Parent Mentor

Professional Development

Master NLP Practitioner

Somatic Coach

Master Hypnotist

Solution Focused Brief Therapist

Author

Three published books including:

Perfectionism Unplugged: Overcome Anxiety, Criticism and Self-Sabotage

The BONDing RESET - Mindful Moments Matter For Parents Raising Resilient Kids

Transform Tonight's Bedtime Into Tomorrow's Success

The bedtime routine is not the destination, it's the delivery system.

A Hidden Opportunity Many Parents Miss

Most parents think bedtime is about helping their child fall asleep.

It isn't. Sleep will happen anyway.

What matters is the emotional experience that happens before sleep.

Families have found that the final moments of the day can become the emotional bridge between today's experiences and tomorrow's success.

When bedtime moments are rushed...

Children carry a sense that they're less important into tomorrow.

When bedtime moments are calm and intentional...

Children carry a firmer foundation into tomorrow.

Although one evening doesn't change a child,

Hundreds of evenings?

Those matter.

The method

The BONDing RESET

A Simple Rhythm for Ending Each Day Well

The BONDing RESET™ is the heart of the Own the Night - 90 Night Sprint experience. It's not another bedtime routine to add to your already-full evening.

It's a gentle, repeatable way of helping both you and your child leave the day behind, and move into calm, connected presence. It happens in two parts.

It begins with YOU.

First you RESET

Before you enter the room, you settle yourself.

Not because perfect parents create confident children. But because regulated parent create regulated moments.

Your child responds to your emotional state before they respond to your words. And you don't have to arrive perfectly calm, you simply become present enough to lead the moment ...differently.

Then you B.O.N.D. - together.

15-minutes. Four-steps. Intentional leadership as your child ends their day. You learn how to meet them where they are through:

Listening, Connecting, Nurturing, Noticing, & Being Clearly Present

Helping your child feel:

Safe Seen Valued Loved

Because when they feel the night ends with DEEPER CONNECTION, they carry this forward into sleep.

KEY: During the sleep state for the next 8-10 hours, the brain is thought to sort, organize, and consolidate those ideas and feelings into beliefs about who they are and who they are becoming.

so, WHY this moment?

The Minutes Before Sleep Are Different

As your child moves from the activity of the day toward sleep, the world gets quieter—and so can you.

During the day, your child's attention is pulled in a hundred different directions.

School

Screens

Siblings

Friends

Questions

Noise

Movement

Then bedtime arrives. The lights soften.

As the day's activity begins to fall away, your child's brain gradually moves from an alert, active state towards a calmer brainwave.

This natural transition is sometimes called the hypnagogic state—the period between wakefulness and sleep.

A relaxing evening environment with calm lighting

It's a quieter neurological state, associated with changes in attention and brain activity as the body prepares for rest and repair.

The BONDing RESET™ helps you guide this transition and gives you a way to be intentional inside it.

The "Theta Window" of Opportunity

A couple enjoying uninterrupted time together

As drowsiness deepens, brain activity changes, including slower-frequency brainwave activity.

But here's the important part:

You don't need to understand Theta brainwaves to use the moment well.

You simply need to notice natural things like your child's shoulders soften. Their breathing slows. Their attention turns inward. They become more receptive to new perspectives.

This is thought to open the mind to stories, more interesting observations, greater curiosity, and personal conversations. It's an ideal time to share some affirming declarations which will be carried into sleep.

The Science Behind This

We know several things with confidence:

1. The brain learns through repetition.

2. Relationship shapes emotional development.

3. Co-regulation influences the nervous system and builds feelings of calmness and safety.

4. Sleep plays an important role in rconsolidating learning and emotional experiences.

OWN THE NIGHT brings these ideas together with one practical four-step bedtime BONDing RESET system.

It's about discovering how to end each day more smoothly. The greatest effect is when your child notices themselves differently: "I kept trying." or "I was kind." or "I can do hard things."

Not because you tell them but because they experience these messages consistently, overtime.

Today, it's obvious that successful kids need more than school can teach. Fittingly, parents are the only ones predictably present, who can intentionally influence their child's development during one of the most significant windows of time.

A couple enjoying uninterrupted time together

What makes OWN THE NIGHT different?

A couple enjoying uninterrupted time together

Most parenting programs focus on changing behaviour through compliance and reward, rather than connection.

When parents intentionally OWN THE NIGHT there's a parent and child transformation. Difficult days still happen, but the value is consistent, predictable repair, over perfection.

Through the experience, parents discover how the BONDing RESET can influence ethe family's motional climate and child's internal beliefs. Greater confidence, resilence, and adaptability are the benefits that often follow.

The BONDing RESET was shaped at first through Lorraine's determination to connect with her neurodivergent step-daughter whose nervous system experienced the world differently.

So the system wasn't build in a lab. It was built in a bedroom. And because it works with neurodiverse children, we believe it will work for your child, too.

The own the night journey

What Changes Over Ninety Nights?

We understand that Identity isn't created through one conversation. Real change happens the same way trust is built:

One experience.

Then another.

Then another.

Until you suddenly notice something different. Not because you're looking for it, but because you're living it - together.

The BONDing RESET nightly system becomes part of your family's CULTURE & LEGACY.

night 1 - begin

Tonight you slow down. Pause. Simply begin.

Nothing dramatic happens. And that's the point. You're building a rhythm - not chasing a breakthrough.

  • Less rushing

  • More intention

  • Hope replaces guessing

night 30 - believe

The routine starts to feel familiar.

Your child begins expecting these moments.

You notice bedtime becoming calmer. You notice yourself becoming calmer too.

Sometimes, your child reminds you it's time for your bedtime talk.

  • Less resistance

  • More connection

  • Bedtime feels lighter

night 60 - become

This is where many parents notice the first surprises.

A teacher comments that your child seems more confident.

A grandparent notices fewer emotional outbursts.

Your child talks more openly about their thoughts and feelings.

You realize the effect of talks didn't stay in the bedroom, it quietly follows into the day.

  • Greater confidence

  • More emotional awareness

  • Stronger relationships

night 90 - here.together.

The greatest transformation isn't that bedtime became easier. It's that your time together became meaningful.

You no longer end the day wondering: "Have I done enough?"

Your child falls asleep feeling safe and comfortable about who they are.

As you close their bedroom door, you're carrying that same feeling.

  • Confidence and resilience are visible

  • You know what to do when you show up - night after night

  • Bedtime connection becomes a part of your family's culture & a valued legacy

Moment By Moment

Your Family Quietly Transformed

Own the night - the program

Five step-by-step learning modules

Short.

Practical.

Immediately usable.

Exploring what truly matters.


The RESET & BONDing Lens

Discover your child's temperament.

How to shape your connection.

Because different children need different approaches.


Explore the BONDing RESET System

Know precisely what to do - night after night.

You're showing up anyway, so own each night with intention.


Weekly Live Coaching

Bring your questions.

Celebrate your wins.

Solve challenges together.

You're never left wondering what to do next.


Direct 1:1 SMS Coaching

This is what makes this program different.

Direct support:

Not next week.

Not next month.

Tonight - for real results.


Community

As you're raising your resilient child, you don't have to figure it out alone.

Share Sprint Markers - Nights 30 - 60 - 90

Here. Together. LIVE

Everything is in the

Founder Cohort
September 5-December 4, 2026

A live ninety-night guided experience.

Not a course you watch someday.

A transformation you live from the first night.

Your Family Investment

Regular Program - $1997 CAD

Founder Family Investment

(not to be repeated)

$497 CAD

Because every flagship program begins with a first group.

Your feedback will help shape future versions.

Lorraine's support will not be this personal again.

Imagine Ninety Nights

From Now...

Your child won't remember every story. They won't remember every word. But they'll remember something much deeper...

How they felt

To be safe.

To be delighted in.

To be fully known.

And when you quietly close their bedroom door...

You'll remember something too.

You didn't just put your child to bed, you helped them end another day feeling deeply loved. And, the effects of this will last their lifetime.

Here. Together.

The Founder's Invitation

Now, let's be clear...

You're not 'programming your child's brain'.

You're creating an intentional opportunity for connection during a naturally quiet transition.

No magic words.

No hypnosis.

No guarantee that one bedtime will change your child's entire life.

Just intentional, repeated moments of safety, connection, appreciation, and presence between a child and the adult they trust. This single thing most people crave.

Repetition Matters

One night isn't the point.

A single bedtime won't determine who your child becomes, but hundreds of nights - that matters.

We know relationships are built through repetition.

One conversation.

One repair.

One hug.

One moment of being seen.

One night after another.

Over time, those experiences become part of the emotional environment through which your child grows.

This is why OWN THRE NIGHT takes 90 nights.

We're not chasing a dramatic overnight transformation.

We're practicing something meaningful, often enough to become normal.

Imagine this...

It's 7:14 PM.

The dishes aren't done. Your phone is still buzzing. You've got prep work to do for tomorrow.

Your child is already under the covers. You need to get back to your evening.

So...

You could rush through the final few minutes.

Or...

You could pause. Spend a few minutes to really connect with your child as you ask:

"What's one thing you'd like me to know about today?"

Maybe they answer.

Maybe they don't.

Maybe they ask you a question.

Maybe they tell you something completely random.

Maybe it's a worry that's been hidden for a week.

Maybe they simply reach for your hand.

That's the point.

They feel safe, secure, seen, valued, known and loved BEFORE THEY FALL ASLEEP. You aren't trying to manufacture a profound moment, you're making room for one.

That's priceless!

The 'Theta Window' isn't the product.

Connection is.

Simply: the protocol becomes the portal.

this is for you

Founder's Invitation

There's a clear structured path.

Here's what to expect.

1
Orientation
Setting the Foundation

Welcome call, setting expectations, and a comprehensive audit of your family's current evening routines and sleep environment.

2
Live Coaching
The Evening Reset & B.O.N.D.

Interactive sessions detailing the step-by-step transition to a calm, predictable night-time environment, tailored to your child's temperament, age & stage of development.

3
Milestones
Troubleshooting & Adjustments

Live Q&A and personalised adjustments to your family's plan based on early results, developmental leaps, and specific challenges.

4
Celebration
You OWN THE NIGHT

Final review. Ongoing planning. Support strategies for the months ahead. Celebrating the newfound rest and peace in your home. You consistently transform tonight's bedtime into tomorrow's success.

Your NEXT STEP

Secure Your Spot

Complete the form to start your family's journey toward calm, predictable nights.

Reminder: Enrollment is limited to ensure personalized attention.

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Families Who Succeeded

The nighttime routine completely changed our lives. We finally have our evenings back, and our children sleep through the night without a single tear. It feels like a miracle.

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Sarah J

Mother of two

I was skeptical because we had tried everything. But this family-focused approach made all the difference. Our home is much calmer now.

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Michael C

Father of a 3-year-old

As a working mom, a lack of sleep was destroying my career. This program didn't just help my daughter feel good and go to sleep—it gave me my sanity and health back, too.

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HERE TO HELP

Common Questions

Choosing the right approach for your family is a meaningful decision. If you don't see your specific concern addressed here, we available to help you gain clarity and confidence before moving forward. Just ask your question in the form.

Why "Own the Night"?

Bedtime happens whether we plan for it or not.

Every evening offers a new opportunity to slow down, reconnect, repair if needed, and help your child end the day feeling safe, seen, and loved.

You can't control everything that happens during the day, but you can choose how the day ends. This is what it means to Own the Night.

My child is already a good sleeper. We don't have bedtime issues. Is this still for us?

Absolutely.

Own the Night isn't about fixing sleep. It's about strengthening one of the few uninterrupted moments you can share each day.

Many parents join because bedtime is already peaceful—they simply want to make it more intentional.

I'm completely exhausted by bedtime. Will this require a lot of extra time or energy?

No. In fact, that's exactly why the BONDing RESET was created.

You're already spending time in the evening. Own the Night doesn't ask you to add more time or become a different parent. It gives you a simple, repeatable rhythm for using the time you already spend with greater intention.

Many parents tell us that bedtime actually becomes easier because there's less guessing, less rushing, and more family connections.

Is this a sleep training program?

No.

The goal isn't to teach your child how to sleep independently or eliminate bedtime challenges through behavioural techniques.

The goal is to transform the emotional quality of the final moments you share before sleep.

Many families do notice calmer evenings and smoother bedtimes, better sleep, but those are by-products of stronger connection—not the primary objective.

My child is autistic, has ADHD, is highly sensitive, or processes the world differently. Is this suitable?

Yes.

The BONDing RESET was originally shaped through Lorraine's personal experience parenting a neurodivergent child, alongside decades of work in Special Education.

Rather than expecting every child to respond the same way, you'll learn to adapt the approach to your child's temperament, communication style, and nervous system.

The goal is never compliance. It's connection.

What ages is this designed for?

The BONDing RESET was designed for families with children approximately 2 to 12 years old.

The conversations, stories, and examples naturally evolve as children grow, but the principles of connection, co-regulation, and intentional presence remain the same.

What if my child doesn't want to talk?

That's completely okay. The goal isn't to make your child have deep conversations every night.

Connection looks different from child to child—and from night to night.

Some evenings your child will talk.

Some evenings they'll simply listen.

Some evenings they'll just want you to sit beside them.

The BONDing RESET honours all of that.

What if we miss a night?

Life happens.

One missed night doesn't undo the relationship you're building. Nor the beliefs your child is building about YOU and THEMSELVES.

Simply begin again the next evening. This is about consistency OVER TIME, not perfection.

Why ninety nights?

Meaningful change grows through repetition. We know that one bedtime rarely changes anything.

However, ninety intentional evenings give your family time to move beyond "trying something new" and begin to create a predictable way you naturally end each day.

For most children, predictability = safety.

How much time does the program require?

The bedtime practice itself fits naturally into the time you're already spending with your child.

The course training modules are short and practical, designed to fit into real family life.

Most parents spend far less time learning the process than they do wondering whether they're handling things "right".

What if this doesn't feel right for our family?

That's exactly why we include the 30-Night Bedtime Transformation Guarantee.

Within the first month, you'll know whether the BONDing RESET feels natural for your family. If it's not a good fit, you'll receive a pro-rated refund - no hard feelings.

You'll also have direct access to Lorraine through weekly coaching and the Cool, Calm Community, so you're never left trying to figure things out alone.

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Ready for Better
Mornings?

Tonight, bedtime will happen.

So will tomorrow night.

And the night after that.

The question isn't whether your child will go to sleep.

The question is what they'll carry with them when they do?

Because childhood isn't built in dramatic moments. It's built in ordinary evenings repeated hundreds of times.

You've always been in the room.

Now you'll know what to do while you're there.

Transform tonight's bedtime into tomorrow's success.

Here. Together.

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